LADIES: Is Something "Missing" From Your Sex Life?
Would You Like to Have More Intimacy, Connection, and
“Strip away the misconceptions about sex after 40!
To: Women experiencing low sex drive or an unsatisfying sexual relationship who want to get their "groove" back
From: Dr. Anna Cabeca, Gynecologist, Sexual Health Expert and Women’s Health Expert
Whether you’re a woman in your late childbearing years, a woman in the midst of the “change of life,” or even well into menopause, your optimal state of being is to feel vital and energetic, passionate and sexy. When you're in this state, you feel like you can handle whatever life sends your way.
The problem is, too many of us don't feel passionate or sexy at all. We're busy, stressed, and tired. We fight with our partners. We yell at our kids. There's an illness or death in the family. Our hormones are going haywire and we're trying our best to hold it all together. It's no wonder our sex lives have gone down the drain!
Life happens. Bad stuff happens. But will we let this get the best of us? Will we let ourselves go, disconnecting from our sensual bodies, never to feel the delicious warmth of connection, intimacy, and sexual satisfaction again?
If you're like me and many of the women I work with in my clinic, you're not wiling to give up on this "yummy" part of yourself, but you're not sure where to start to re-create the life you want. You crave:
And you would like to:
There's a good reason you feel this way. You see, to be fully alive, we REQUIRE fun, intimacy, and connection.
When we experience these, we are re-charged and re-energized. When we experience fun, intimacy and connection regularly in our lives, we are living a sensual life.
Unfortunately, many forces in our society, including the media, have perverted the concepts of sensuality and sexuality, making us feel bad and ashamed about enjoying our bodies. We unconsciously absorb these negative messages and disconnect from our sensual, sexual selves.
Yet, when we do this, we disconnect from our spirit, because our spirit is a part of our living body. And our body has a strong need for touch and deep connection with a partner.
Who Am I and Why Should You Believe What I Say?
My name is Anna Cabea and I’m an OBGYN and women’s health expert with a private practice in Georgia. I have credentials in the areas of functional medicine, age management, and regenerative medicine, but I don't think those are what uniquely qualifies me to speak to you about woment's sexual health.
What I really want you to know is that I've been in practice for over 15 years, and during that time, I've helped thousands of women to rediscover their sex drive and re-connect with their partners through my unique evalutations, cutting edge clinical therapies, and sex education tailored to the specific issues of women in their 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond.
The women I have helped are all wonderful, intelligent women with careers and families who are at their wits end, bewildered as to why they've lost their desire and feel so "passionless."
Through many years of study, clinical practice and personal experience, I have come to understand the constellation of factors contributing to the declining sexual drive of many women in the prime of their life. I will share more about these factors in just a bit, but first, let me tell you more about how I came to get here.
My Personal Struggles
About 13 years ago, my mother died tragically during an operation. Grieving and wanting to understand if her death could have been prevented, I started studying inflammation, hormone imbalance, endocrinology and how to combine conventional medicine with functional medicine.
It was my goal to try to prevent in my patients the things that led up to my mother’s death by getting to the underlying causes. This was the motivation for years of intense study in a diverse range of medical specialties so I could understand the complex interconnections between all these different areas of the body.
Then, following another personal tragedy 6 years ago when my young son died, I didn’t want to get out of bed. I would cry all the time and I felt hopeless. I was utterly heartbroken and couldn’t do much to help myself out of a dark pit of sadness for what seemed like a very, very long time. I became disconnected from my body and started living in my head to avoid the excruciating pain in my heart.
Immediately after this tragedy struck, everything went haywire with my health. I went into instant menopause at age 39 with chronic pain, depression, weight gain, and the list goes on. From the experts in my field and other related fields, I was told over and over again things such as:
Here's me in a heavier time.
Being told that I was just going to have to "live with it" and accept all these symptoms just added insult to injury!
Who wants to be told that there’s nothing you can do other than take pharmaceutical drugs (with a list of side effects) and “you’ll just have to live with it?” Not me! I saw what a cocktail of meds did to my mother and I wanted none of it...
How I Pulled Myself Out of the Abyss
I knew I had to provide a good example to my daughters who were struggling too. Something needed to be done because I wasn’t just going to lay down and give up.
So I decided to radically change my life. I took a year off and traveled around the world with my children and husband. I sought out the wisest and most experienced healers. I asked them questions and listened to their advice. I wrote it all down and began to put the puzzle pieces together in a way I never had before. Oh, there are so many stories to share!
One of the things that I realized on this journey was that our body and spirit changes when we experience trauma or grief. We become disconnected from our bodies - we stop paying attentinon to them - and start living in our heads. While this is an understandable attempt to cut off our pain, sadly, it also cuts us off from our joyfulness.
Me and my beautiful
I took what I had learned and began to take steps toward healing. The changes didn’t happen overnight, but gradually, day by day, my body responded and I conceived a healthy baby at age 41. (Remember, that’s after being told I was irreversibly infertile.)
I am 5’ 8’’ and now maintain a healthy 145-150 pounds (I once weighed 240, so I’ve been there). I have four wonderful daughters, a medical practice, a foundation in honor of my son, and I lecture regularly around the country (and the world) training physicians. And I manage to stay healthy and live a passoinate, sensual life filled with energy and excitement.
My Big "Aha"
One day last year I was contemplating the important role that reconnecting with my sensual, physical body had in pulling me out of my depression when I saw that without consciously realizing it, I was helping my patients to do the same.
Then I began thinking about women's sexuality, pleasure, relationships, connection, and intimacy, and the connections between them. I thought about how broad and deep these topics are, and how they are so often ignored in our society.
That's when I had my "aha" moment. I realized that these topics deserved an entire workshop devoted to them, and that I had the knowledge, skills, and desire to share and explore this material with other women. It just didn't seem fair to not help other women struggling with the same issues when I knew I could help them, as I did for myself, and for my many grateful patients.
I started formulating a plan to bring this program into fruition, and because I wanted to help women all over the world, I decided to deliver the course online and over the phone -- all virtual, all digital, so no one would be excluded.
It doesn't matter where you are. You can join us and we'll work together as a team to learn the key strategies to regaining intimacy and revitalizing our sex lives. We'll learn how to apply them, and you'll have plenty of opportunities to get your questions answered.
This program is an important investment in yourself that pays life-long dividends in good health, better energy, and a zestier sex life!
I'm so excited to be offering this brand new 7-part course: "Women's Sexual CPR Workshop."
New 7-part Online Program
If you're ready to learn the SECRETS to reigniting your sex drive, experiencing more deep, soul-satisfying sexual pleasure, and reconnecting with your partner -- so you can experience true intimacy -- then do NOT miss out on this opportunity to learn from one of the most accomplished and knowledgeable women's sexual health physicians in the country!
One thing I want all women to understand: "sensual" and "passionate" do NOT equal dirty or slutty. Our bodies were designed by God to enjoy pleasure. It's our birthright!
This program is for you if:
Below you can see in more detail what we will cover organized by class, but here are some topics we will be addressing:
We will explore where and when physical and emotional disconnect happens during intimacy and intercourse, and I will share with you my personal network of amazing doctors, specialists and teachers who can help you with your specific issues around sexuality.
FOUR WEBINAR PRESENTATIONS with ME where I will walk you through the program step-by-step. Classes are available to you 24/7 on our private, members-only Women's Sexual CPR Workshop website. Each presentation is 60-75 minutes long.
A BONUS Q&A CALL. This is a recorded question and answer session from our last live Sexual CPR Workshop. We had a cross section of women from all walks of life and experience in the program, so if you have a question, most likely it's answered here.
THREE BONUS WEBINARS with Dr. Cabeca and Special Guest Experts, including Dr. Diana Kirschner (Sealing the Deal, Love in 90 Days) on keeping your relationship sizzling hot, and Justine Dawson (OneTaste) on the female orgasm, and Dr. Jeff Life (The Life Plan) on male health and sexuality. These guests are amazing!
HANDOUTS AND WORKSHEETS for every class, to help you follow along and best retain what you learn, including self-assessment quizzes, checklists, guides, chapters from my Restorative Health Program book, links to external resources, and more. All materials will be posted on my exclusive members-only website.
RECORDED PLAYBACKS OF ALL CLASSES AND MP3 RECORDINGS of all calls, so you can watch and listen to them over and over on your computer, iPod, or other MP3 player. These classes will be so information rich that you'll be glad to have the recordings.
GREAT DISCOUNTS AND SPECIAL OFFERS for Workshop members ONLY. During the program we will have incredible deals on our most popular and effective products and tests, should you choose to try them. There is no obligation or need to purchase anything additional to be successful on the program, but IF you decide you want to take your personal wellness investigation just a little bit deeper, I will share with you how you can do that and get amazing discounts too.
You can see I am including everything I can to set you up for success!
And best of all, this course is available at one of the LOWEST prices ever. I'm doing this because I know this information is FOUNDATIONAL for women to have an incredible sex life and intimate connection with their partners, and I want to make it EASY for you to participate.
You can see that my previous program participants LOVED the experience and got SO MUCH out of it! While this is not the same program that the above participants took, I share these testimonials with you here so you can see that I treat my participants right and provide amazing value.
What Happens When You Reserve Your Space
Here’s just a sampling of what I cover
Each class consists of appox. 60 minutes of teaching time, followed by 15-30 minutes of Q&A where I answered questions from the last live workshop.
All classes are immediately available to you on the private website where you can watch the webinar or listen to the call recording to at your convenience. For teleclasses, we also offer the MP3 for download.
The private website is where you will access the quizzes, handouts, resources and other supporting materials for the course.
And... Get These Great Bonuses!
Everyone who registers gets:
I have hand selected a wide array of relevant and complimentary bonuses from doctors and experts in their fields to give you access to the BEST information there is.
The bonuses alone are worth more than $315. Act QUICKLY, and you will get ALL of the bonuses described above.
So How Much Is This Going to Cost?
My business mastermind recommended that I charge $997 for this program...
But I couldn't stomach that because I want you to have access to this information if you need it, no matter what your financial situation (and who these days has nearly $1000 lying around?).
So right now for a LIMITED TIME, I'm making it available to you for a special low price of just $97 (save $900). If you’d prefer to pay in 2 installments, I'm offering a 2-pay option at just $534 (2 payments of $57, billed 30 days apart).
Remember, for this low price, you get 4 webinars with me; a bonus Q&A call; 3 bonus classes with special guest experts; all of the handouts, resources and supporting materials you need to be successful; AND all of the great bonuses you can see here totaling more than $315 in value.
I hope you see the immediate value of this program. But if you’re at all concerned about the cost, think about this:
The rate to spend an hour with me in my office is $400. That’s $400 to get me for 60 minutes, fitting as much as I can squeeze into that one hour. In the workshop, you get over 4 hours of in-depth lecture time, plus over two hours of Q&A time (probably more). That’s more than 6 hours total - not even including the guest lecture classes.
When you do the math, that’s just $64.83 per hour. That’s a $336 per hour discount to get equally valuable access to me. If you multiply by the length of the course, you’re saving $2,011 to get the identical number of hours with me! Think about that…. Over 6 hours of my expertise at a TINY FRACTION of the price you would normally pay!
In addition to the enormous savings, here’s the way I look at it that I think makes this an easy decision:
What is it costing you to NOT to have an intimate relationship with your partner?
What is it costing you to NOT feel sensual, joyful, and fantastic about yourself?
If you think about this, you’ll realize that it’s costing you FAR MORE not to take action.
I just want you to honestly think about the consequences of NOT taking action now.
Remember, when you experience connection, intimacy and sexual satisfaction in the bedroom, it suffuses your entire life with happiness and joy. You accomplish more, you get more of what you want, and everyone around you is happier because they feel your joy.
Still Have Questions or Concerns?
If I were to guess the top questions or objections you will have about buying my program today, they would be these:
1. It’s been so long since my partner and I had good sex, it feels hopeless. Can your program really help me?
2. I’ve never been able to achieve orgasm easily, even when I was 20. Why would that change now?
3. Is this material really something that can be learned through webinars and online? Isn’t it more experiential?
4. It’s been so long since I felt intense sexual desire and all the drama that goes with it. I’m not sure I want to go back to that. Why is it so important?
5. I don’t have a partner right now. Should I wait to take the course until I do?
6. It’s so expensive – I can’t afford it right now.
7. I have sexual abuse and trauma in my past. Will the course address those issues and be relevant for women like me?
8. I was raised in an environment where it was taboo to talk about sex or dress sexy. I’m still uncomfortable with it and don’t like it when women are overtly sexual. Frankly, I’m not convinced that sex is that important. Why would someone like me want to join?
9. I am overweight and embarrassed by my body. I don’t even want to think about having sex until I’ve lost weight. Now is not the right time for me to do this course.
So here’s how I would clear those up for you…
It’s been so long since my partner and I had good sex, it feels hopeless. Can you program really help me?
Absolutely. There are many reasons why sexual frequency and satisfaction diminish in long term relationships, but they aren’t mysterious. There are very specific causes and strategies for figuring out what the issues are in your relationship, and for addressing them, one step at a time. My program is designed for a woman in your position.
I’ve never been able to achieve orgasm easily, even when I was 20. Why would that change now?
For a small percentage of women, achieving orgasm has never been difficult and continues to be a regular occurrence during sexual interaction with a partner. For the rest of us, however, it’s a bit trickier. The thing you need to know is that teaching your body how to orgasm is a learned skill. In this course, you’ll learn specific exercises and approaches that will allow your body to naturally open to orgasm (without ever feeling pressured or forced), no matter how long it’s been since you had one, and no matter how old you are.
Is this material really something that can be learned through webinars and online? Isn’t it more experiential?
Good point. While the material is well suited to teaching online—through webinars, teleclasses, and digital materials—we all know that information alone does not physically transform people. Your part is to take the recommended exercises and instructions and actually practice them. If you are not wiling to try something new, this course probably isn’t for you.
It’s been so long since I felt intense sexual desire and all the drama that goes with it. I’m not sure I want to go back to that. Why is it so important?
First, drama is never important, so just don’t participate in it! But sex IS important for our overall health and wellbeing because it makes us feel connected to another human being in the most intimate and profound way. Plus, it’s like a detox and a recharge all at once. I compare sexual satisfaction to being “plugged in” to a deep well of energy. When you have access to this energy, your whole life expands. You feel more positive and productive. You’re happier, and are able to achieve your dreams and goals with more grace and ease.
I don’t have a partner right now. Should I wait to take the course until I do?
Don’t wait! Take the course NOW so you’ll be in a passionate and open place, ready for that special person to walk into your life. Imagine how thrilled they’ll be to have found such a sensual, sexually well-versed lover!
It’s so expensive – I can’t afford it right now.
Let me put this into perspective for you. What is it costing you NOT to address the loss of your sex drive? Think about the hours, day, weeks, months you’ve spent in a grouchy mood, nagging at your partner, feeling disconnected. Do you think this works with or against your ability to be more productive, make more money, and have more satisfying interactions with everyone in your life – including your kids, your colleagues, your friends, and even the local grocery store clerk? If you think about how your life would change in so many ways – both tangible and intangible – by reinvigorating your sex life and reconnecting in a deep way with your partner, is it worth less than the price of a new dress?
I have sexual abuse and trauma in my past. Will the course address those issues and be relevant for women like me?
I can relate to this, and I know many women in the course will too. While this is not a course specifically about healing sexual trauma, we will not ignore it either and will address the topic with the utmost care and respect.
I was raised in an environment where it was taboo to talk about sex or dress sexy. I’m still uncomfortable with it and don’t like it when women are overtly sexual. Frankly, I’m not convinced that sex is that important. Why would someone like me want to join?
I understand that feeling of discomfort. Let me make one thing clear: what some women consider “dressing sexy” is actually “dressing slutty” and that’s not at all what I advocate. You don’t have to reveal a lot of skin to feel sexy (and in fact, I feel sexier when I’m leaving something to the imagination!). We’ll be exploring ways to feel sexy in your body that don’t involve anything overtly sexual. See my comments above about why a satisfying sex life is important to our overall health and wellbeing.
I am overweight and embarrassed by my body. I don’t even want to think about having sex until I’ve lost weight. Now is not the right time for me to do this course.
Did you know that some of the sexiest women I’ve ever known were considerably overweight? It’s true. Your body size is not the issue. How you feel about yourself determines whether you feel sexy and are perceived as sexy by your partner. If you are willing to open to the possibility that you are a desirable, sexy women just as you are right now, then you can experience amazing intimacy and connection with your partner. This is 100% true, but you must be willing to take the leap to experience this for yourself. Besides, I have found that the best way to start losing weight is to start enjoying life and having fun. When you are satisfied in other areas of your life, you have less desire to overeat and tend to be more active.
So what are you waiting for?
NOW is the time to finally put yourself first and take care of YOUR pleasure and happiness!
Wishing You a Vida Pura,
Anna Cabeca, DO, FACOG
P.S. Remember, you can never go wrong investing in your happiness and health. It's the best gift you can give to yourself and your family.
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